Another School talk

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So here we were S , Sanja and myself playing around in the evening.
S asks: Sanja can I also go to school.
Sanja: Ok.
S : Onodha school ku varatha (can i come to your school).
Sanja : No, you go to boys school .
V : But Sanja, in your school both boys and girls study together.
S: So I can come right.
Sanja: No no no, You go to another school or class, don't come to my class.

S and V wonder -- Does this attitude start this early in age.

S aunt works in a government school that has seperate campus for Boys and girls. Sanja knows that the great aunt works in the girls school. I think ,her assumption from conversation above is that girls go to girls school and boys go to boys school. 

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